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      META THREAD ALERT

      I think any talk about norms/normies/normalfags/etc has a detrimental effect on kissu or any other site. Ideological purity tests rarely have a beneficial effect, as I think people visiting here want a more laid back attitude in which a perceived hierarchy is not of anyone's concern. Personally, I don't care if you're the president of Kenya, or a serial killer, or a hermit hasn't seen the sun in 40 years as long as you're nice here.
      I don't propose a ban on it, but I think people really try to avoid these dick measuring contests. What say you?

    2. Post 6233
      Anonymous
      No.6233

      chill out, normoblaster
      yeah, I hate it. It reeks of r9k

    3. Post 6234
      Anonymous
      No.6234

      I think people obsess over purity too much in general. I don't really care if someone "fits in" on an imageboard, I just want them to contribute good content.

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      i have a job

    5. Post 6239
      Anonymous
      No.6239

      Can someone summarize this issue?

    6. Post 6240
      Anonymous
      No.6240

      >>6236
      What job is it?

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      >>6239
      Most recently some guy(s) attacked another guy and labeled him a 'norm' in the blog thread, because for some reason they didn't expect blogging in it or something. He said he was going to stop posting on kissu as a result, but I really hope he reconsiders.
      It doesn't feel right to moderate it, but it's I'm also growing tired of venomous people pushing out good posters because of their stupid purity tests. It reeks of /a/ and I hate that place so god damn much

    8. Post 6242
      Anonymous
      No.6242

      >>6241

      Thank you for your concise summarization.

      It sounds like a common social group phenomenon, I would be more surprised if a community did NOT occasionally experience something similar.

      In this case, what kind of people does the 'in' group comprise of? The OP appears to indicate that it is 'normal' people. However, I would argue that if someone is posting here, they are already past 'normal'...

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      >>6242
      >In this case, what kind of people does the 'in' group comprise of?
      The point is that there isn't supposed to be one. The 'in' group are the people that post on kissu

    10. Post 6245
      Anonymous
      No.6245

      >>6241
      The person in question came out and said he doesn't care what people think of him. He doesn't care what we think? Then I don't care about him and his blogging that doesn't care about me. It's ridiculous that you'd fall for such cheap emotional blackmail. Should I say that this thread is persecution and announce my leaving over it? Would you suddenly delete this thread and create another for people to openly discuss their "grievances" with the community?

      Everybody wants gatekeeping until the spammy wannabe riajuu who "reluctantly" goes to all the parties and talks about getting smashed in a 2D/random message board under spoiler tags is gatekept.

    11. Post 6246
      Anonymous
      No.6246

      >>6245
      Please do not misuse spoilers.

    12. Post 6247
      Anonymous
      No.6247

      Gatekeeping the wrong people out kills a community, just as failing to gatekeep the right people out does. I don't see much risk of this site getting flooded by 'normies' (although that could always change in the future) whereas the possibility of excluding potentially constructive posters through excessively high community standards is much more realistic. In this case I think gatekeeping is unwarranted and is likely to do more harm than good.

    13. Post 6248
      Anonymous
      No.6248

      teenmin thread award

    14. Post 6249
      Anonymous
      No.6249

      teenmin dindu nuffin

    15. Post 6250
      Anonymous
      No.6250

      that's exactly what a norm would say, opee

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      tell me when this thread reaches a consensus so i can do something about it

    17. Post 6252
      Anonymous
      No.6252

      ban the norms that use the word norm

    18. Post 6253
      Anonymous
      No.6253

      I think there should be ""some"" elitism to ensure that the website is not turned into a culture-war bullshit for either side (/pol/ and /lpol/ die in a hole).
      Or maybe we shouldn't discuss our lives in general, that blogging should be verboten.

    19. Post 6255
      Anonymous
      No.6255

      >>6241
      Were those his first posts in the thread or were some of the earlier rude "stop blogging" threads him? The thing to look out for here is whether it's just him expressing his displeasure about a post and getting into an argument or a pattern of posts intended to harass a specific target.

    20. Post 6256
      Anonymous
      No.6256

      >>6253
      >I think there should be ""some"" elitism to ensure that the website is not turned into a culture-war bullshit for either side (/pol/ and /lpol/ die in a hole).
      Yes to this, but we already do it.
      Elitism in the sense of thinking our community is good and wanting it to be better is an important positive quality. (Although we have to be careful that the particular methods we use to gatekeep are chosen based on effectiveness and not based on blowing off anger.)

      >Or maybe we shouldn't discuss our lives in general, that blogging should be verboten.
      That's going overboard.

    21. Post 6257
      Anonymous
      No.6257

      >>6245
      It's the blog thread, though. It's where people go to talk about themselves and their life. I don't want to get too much into that specific example apart from it starting when someone invoked the 'norm' thing

      >>6251
      It's not something moderation is needed for, really. It's far better to talk about it and try to change minds.

    22. Post 6258
      Anonymous
      No.6258

      Maybe because I'm new to this site I don't quite understand.

      What are the 'anti-norms' expecting in a post in the blog board? What kind of stories do they want rather than what was posted?

    23. Post 6259
      Anonymous
      No.6259

      >>6258
      I assume it's about the work complaints

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      >>6259
      So are you telling me there's a stinky NEET who needs punishing?

    25. Post 6261
      Anonymous
      No.6261

      >>6260
      whap'im good

    26. Post 6262
      Anonymous
      No.6262

      >>6258
      there are people who like to talk about problems that exist in their head

    27. Post 6268
      Anonymous
      No.6268

      >>6253
      >>6256
      The issue with active gatekeeping, especially on imageboards, is that most of the people doing it are either autistic neophobes who hate change even when it's positive, and squeaky wheel types who voice their own personal opinions as if they speak for the whole community.

    28. Post 6285
      Anonymous
      No.6285

      >>6268
      wait fuck I'm both.

    29. Post 6287
      Anonymous
      No.6287

      >>6268
      name 3 instances of changes that were positive

    30. Post 6292
      Anonymous
      No.6292

      >>6287
      Change is always going to happen no matter what. It's simply the way the world works. Trying to prevent it leads to the ugliest possible form of change: stagnation. There's no such thing as perfect preservation, and a community built purely around it is going to gradually decay as ideas get watered down and forgotten with time.

      That's why it's important to introduce a controlled form of change to a community: enough to offset the inevitable generation loss without altering it at a fundamental level.

    31. Post 6293
      Anonymous
      No.6293

      >>6292
      I see you're dodging the question
      >Change is always going to happen no matter what
      might as well legalize MURDER too, since MURDERS are always going to happen no matter what

    32. Post 6294
      Anonymous
      No.6294

      >>6293
      Posing OC is, by definition, a form of change, since you're introducing content that hasn't been posted before, and I'd like to think most people consider OC to generally be a good thing.

    33. Post 6298
      Anonymous
      No.6298

      >>6287
      Every time the new stuff was used to make new fun stuff. That might be two instances, I'm not sure.

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      >>6287
      I can name one, when /qa/ changed from "Delete /pol/" to 2D/Random

    35. Post 6302
      Anonymous
      No.6302

      >>6292
      I'll say this, I have nothing against change, and I do believe that change and newness is somewhat of a good thing.
      What I ask is that the common folk get a say on what should change, who should we try to shill towards, who should we bring, it should be a community effort, instead of steady invasion of people who hate you and disrespect your culture and the culture of those before you.
      What I'm asking is that we, as a community should have a say in how change should be, and not the newfags who believe they are entitled because they brought the cool idea.

    36. Post 6303
      Anonymous
      No.6303

      >>6302
      change and evolution of a community should occur naturally, not as a democratic process with scrutinous thought
      not that i really give a shit but the thought of some fags deciding over irc or something about what is "2d/random" just seems rediculous

    37. Post 6305
      Anonymous
      No.6305

      >>6303
      Everything that has been "natural" has been dogshit, forced, and most of all, unfunny. Hell I'd argue it's psyops shit to ruin our community.

    38. Post 6307
      Anonymous
      No.6307

      >>6302
      >What I ask is that the common folk get a say on what should change
      Isn't that what kissu does? I mean, that's why threads like this exist to talk about things. Many people love meta after all.
      I'm not sure what you're talking about with the rest of your post or the posts after it as I haven't noticed anything myself.

    39. Post 6309
      Anonymous
      No.6309

      >>6307
      All I'm saying is that on my time on 4chan has taught me that every change has been even worse in the past 7...8 years now?

    40. Post 6310
      Anonymous
      No.6310

      >>6303
      the council of nicaea but it's sageru #qa debating the what the true nature of meta really is.

    41. Post 6311
      Anonymous
      No.6311

      >>6310
      That has me thinking, forgive me, but how far can we push meta discussion?

    42. Post 6409
      Anonymous
      No.6409

      >>6311
      Until the East-West Schism when /qa/ and /jp/ irreconcilably break apart due to internal divisions.

    43. Post 6536
      Anonymous
      No.6536

      >>6303
      Natural culture isn't real. Culture is the work of humans by its nature. Attempting a natural culture just means passively going along with the culture pushed by someone else. But you're right that expecting it to be the outcome of a debate is ridiculous. That's because action always trumps debate. Still, that's not to say debate is worthless, especially if people are open to changing their minds. Kissu should be a board full of people who have learned the pitfalls of stagnation, passivity, and aggression, and who each do their best to change Kissu into their vision of a better board.

    44. Post 6537
      Anonymous
      No.6537

      >>6409
      I don't see any reason for that to happen, especially with the popularity of /all/

    45. Post 6538
      Anonymous
      No.6538

      Rather than judge culture by whether it's natural or artificial, we should judge it by whether every poster can have an influence on the culture. People are rightly upset when they feel they have no part in a culture. On sufficiently huge boards, people often convince themselves that the culture is an amalgamation of the wills of its members, but in reality it's driven by moderators and spammers. On small boards with overly strict moderation, mods dictate the culture, and on /intl/ style free-for-alls, spammers dictate culture because they're the only ones with visible posts. On stagnant boards, posters can't influence the culture because the culture is fixed and unmoving. It's not necessary, practical, or even good for everyone to have an equal influence over the culture, but everyone should have a little influence without the need for outsized effort.

    46. Post 6540
      Anonymous
      No.6540

      >>6538
      I agree.

    47. Post 6541
      Anonymous
      No.6541

      >>6538
      speaking from authority the culture of a site is from a select few people who are interested in seeing a site succeed(you label them as spammers) and the moderators deciding if something fits or not(this can be removed depending on maturity of the group). You point out authoritarian structures and anarchist structures but the middle ground exists.

      The rest of what you said is nice though. Culture needs to move around a lot and I think this relates simply to the problem of repetition. Constantly creating new things is important and this requires fresh ideas from new people or to empower the creative ones.

    48. Post 6542
      Anonymous
      No.6542

      >>6541
      On very large sites to influence the culture you have to be a spammer, regardless whether your intentions are good or bad. I'm thinking boards like 4chan here, but the same ideas probably apply to social media, although I have less experience there. These aren't always people who want to see the site succeed. They have varying interests like propagandizing a particular political view, spreading their latest wojak variant, or simply venting about their feel when no gf.

      It sounds like you're describing more of a small, healthy site. As I said, I have no problem with some users having a greater influence over the culture than others. It's obviously healthy for people who use the site more, care about the site, and contribute more content to have a greater influence. I certainly didn't mean to imply no middle ground exists between authoritarianism and anarchism; rather, I was enumerating various ways a board can be unhealthy. The middle ground is desirable.

    49. Post 6706
      Anonymous
      No.6706

      >>6241
      >Most recently some guy(s) attacked another guy and labeled him a 'norm' in the blog thread, because for some reason they didn't expect blogging in it or something.
      ha, i remember this happening to me on samachan with my posts deleted and banned. cant say i missed it much when it closed.....

    50. Post 6708
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      No.6708

      >>6706
      I remember samachan being a den of spermers..
      From what I remember, the it had a meguca-like liveblog board, like 90% of the posts there were about porn and masturbation. There was also some girl with a horsecock dildo blogging and posting pics of herself there?
      And the admin was also female?
      She had her nudes leaked because of some drama in the mod team
      Can't say I remember much more about that website, hopefully you know something more, mr. samachan poster

    51. Post 6709
      Anonymous
      No.6709

      >>6708
      i know the liveboard got shut down a few years before the site itself was closed due to drama, but the admin themselves was a little crazy and paranoid about a lot of things so its hard to know what was actually drama. They were very active and very vocal about a lot of things, they were a tripfag with admin powers for the most part. i dont know much more than you, i lurked for a good bit but that blog thread was my first post, and after that i stopped going there.

    52. Post 6710
      Anonymous
      No.6710

      I miss samachan and lol at all these misconceptions.

    53. Post 6714
      Anonymous
      No.6714

      >>6710
      What did I get wrong? I can't say I've lurked there for that long, but those were my strongest impressions of it

    54. Post 8653
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      >>6257
      meh, a-holes will be a-holes. can't do much about it except ignore them. as long as we hide their post so we don't see it anymore, then we'll be at more peace.

    55. Post 8655
      Anonymous
      No.8655

      >>6709
      I don't know what their deal was but for what it's worth I archived the entire site in that brief window admin brought it back up to publish her long cringe novella about how she dreads her website being associated with 4chan just because it's an imageboard or whatever. yeah what do you expect?

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